The book community is wonderful... but one thing still bothers me.
Happy Friday! It’s time for another Book Blogger Hop hosted by Coffee Addicted Writer! Each week, we all answer the same bookish question and then hop around to see everyone’s responses.
This week's Book Blogger Hop question made me stop and think. The book community is filled with wonderful people who love sharing books, recommendations, and reviews, but every now and then something comes along that makes me wish we were just a little kinder to one another.
Book Blogger Hop Question
What’s your biggest pet peeve about the book community?
Submitted by Billy @ Coffee-Addicted Writer
My Answer
My biggest pet peeve is probably book shaming or making readers feel like their reading choices are not good enough.
Reading should be personal. Some readers love literary fiction, some love romance, some love thrillers, some love cozy mysteries, and some just want something light and comforting at the end of a long day. I do not think there should be one “right” way to be a reader.
I especially dislike when certain genres are treated as less serious or less worthy. A book does not have to be heavy or complicated to matter. Sometimes the book that brings someone comfort, joy, or escape is exactly the book they needed.
That does not mean everyone has to enjoy the same books. We all have different tastes, and honest opinions are part of what makes the book community interesting. But there is a big difference between saying a book was not for you and making someone else feel bad for loving it.
For me, the best part of the book community is discovering how differently we all read. I love seeing people get excited about books, even when those books are not necessarily ones I would pick up myself.
Thankfully, I think the positive far outweighs the negative. I've discovered so many wonderful books, met incredible bloggers, and found recommendations I never would have picked up on my own. That's exactly why I enjoy participating in the Book Blogger Hop each week.
So my answer is simple: let people read what they love. There is room for all kinds of readers and all kinds of books.
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What's one thing you'd love to see change in the book community?
What about you?
Is there one thing that makes you shake your head as a reader, or do you mostly focus on everything you love about the book community? I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments.
I'd love to hear your answer. Stop by and let me know. Happy Reading!
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Happy Reading!
The negativity gets to me. I love seeing what people read and like you say you get to try things that you wouldn't normally go for.
ReplyDeleteHave a great weekend!
Emily @ Budget Tales Book Blog
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I agree! One of my favorite parts of the book community is discovering books I might never have picked up on my own. It’s amazing how often another reader’s enthusiasm leads me to a new favorite. Thanks for stopping by, and have a wonderful weekend! Happy Reading!
DeleteOh my! That's a new phrase for me---"book shaming." But it's my pet peeve, too. I wish I could say to people, "You read what you love, and I'll read what I love...we do not have to all read the same thing!"
ReplyDeleteExactly! That's how I feel too. 😊 Reading is such a personal experience, and there really is room for every genre and every reader. We don't all have to love the same books to share a love of reading. Thanks so much for stopping by! Happy Reading!
DeleteGood post. Book shaming definitely annoys me too! There are a few times when I think it's okay to share negative opinions of a book even if someone else likes it (e.g. pointing out a problematic theme), I hate it when someone puts someone else down for liking a book, genre or anything else about books that they don't like. Reading's supposed to be fun...
ReplyDeleteI completely agree! We can have different opinions about books without putting down the people who enjoy them. Reading should be fun. Thanks for sharing! Happy Reading!
DeleteYes, no one should be shamed for their reading tastes! It brings me happiness just knowing someone is finding joy in reading, whatever they're reading!
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by! 😊 I couldn’t agree more. As long as someone is enjoying a good book, that’s what really matters. Happy Reading!
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